And fans have responded.They\u2019ve created a dialogue with the band, telling them just how much their songs have helped them get over their hardships, and the group in turn responds at shows and on social media to listeners who simply need to be reminded that everything will be okay.<\/span><\/p>\nhttps:\/\/youtube.com\/watch?v=t50xu88F3xE<\/p>\n
It\u2019s that way for a lot of metal bands. The music builds a community. Tia Diadonna has been a metal fan for as long as she can remember, and bands like Our Vices have helped her through the most difficult points in her life. <\/span><\/p>\n\u201cMetal is what got me through my dad\u2019s death, bullying in high school and years of depression,\u201d Diadonna said. \u201cThese bands are what gave me the positivity I needed to get through it all. I could relate to the music I was listening to. They sing about real, important, emotional, relatable topics.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\nThe problem, though, is that outsiders often don\u2019t hear that. They only hear the aggression, the anger, the violence. What they\u2019re missing, according to Gowensmith, is the thing that can really make a difference: the resolution.<\/span><\/p>\n\u201cWhen people who aren\u2019t into metal give it a listen, they often give it a passing glance and just hear a few words, some screaming, the intense music and quickly perceive the snippets they hear as promoting violence or death or aggression,\u201d Gowensmith said. \u201cThey don\u2019t realize that most metal bands aren\u2019t really promoting violence or aggression. They are really just giving voice to it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n